This is the second of our guest posts on Approach Anxiety. Be sure to let us know which one you like best! Is approach anxiety bothering you? Get over it with these golden tips Oh, there she is, looking gorgeous in that little black dress. You feel like going up […]
Here’s a podcast from Brent Smith about Valentine’s Day I thought I’d share: Extraordinary Valentine’s Day This is a time when a lot of single women are looking to meet a great new guy to invite into their lives. I’ve heard stories about Brent actually striking up a conversation with […]
Wow! Awesome teleconference from Nick last night! Thanks to everyone who joined in, and thanks again to Nick and Eric for giving it! Since several of you have asked if there’s an audio recording, I figured I would post it up on the blog for you. Enjoy! You […]
Hey folks, it’s a blast from the past! In light of the Nick Sparks webinar happening TONIGHT, I managed to dig up this old-ass lair talk from back in the day when Nick still lived in the Windy City. We’ll see how his upcoming webinar compares. Enjoy! Remember you […]
Here is the third and final video I mentioned about Transactional Analysis. It explain what a “gimmick” is, and the author’s views about why he thinks it’s more important to focus on our own gimmicks, rather than other people’s games or ulterior motives. Transactional Analysis 3: If you want to read […]
Here’s the second video I mentioned on Transactional Analysis. This explains what a “game” is in the Transactional Analysis sense. Transactional Analysis 2:
We had a lair talk a while back on Transactional Analysis for Pickup and Sex, and a few guys asked for the links to the videos, so I’ll be posting the links here. (We only looked at this first one during the talk, so the two in the following posts will […]
I came across this quote in something written by David X. I don’t exactly agree with the tone he takes at the end, but I do think you can learn something from it. (Besides the fact that it’s pretty hilarious). David X writes: “I once dated a girl who told […]
A lot of folks in the community advocate various forms of “Positive Thinking.” For example, you might hear a lot of people talk about “The Secret,” or “The Law of Attraction,” or just give general advice of “Don’t worry about it” or “You’re over-thinking this; just relax” in response to […]
Here is a video of Morty Lefkoe explaining the “Lefkoe Method” at a TEDx talk in Hoboken, NJ. There are two major things I recommend to newbies for getting over approach anxiety. One is the Lefkoe Method. (The other is “Implosion Therapy,” which will be on a future blog post.) […]