“Nice Shoes. Wanna…?” The Pick-Up Line – The Fast Way to Sleep Alone The worst thing guys ever did was to try to make picking up chicks into a formula. “Say this, do this, get laid.” One of our Forum Members recently described old-school pickup artistry as “guys trying to […]
What is a Wingman? Have you ever seen Top Gun? If you answered no, you may leave your man-card in a drawer until you have. The main character, Maverick, has a wingman, another pilot that flies behind him to intercept enemies that Maverick can’t see. In the movie that wingman’s […]
Dress for the Girl You Want – A Quick Guide to Looking the Part from the Project Chicago Lair There are a few simple rules that you need to remember to dress for picking up women. Shower – We really shouldn’t have to tell you this, but you would be […]
Hey folks, it’s a blast from the past! In light of the Nick Sparks webinar happening TONIGHT, I managed to dig up this old-ass lair talk from back in the day when Nick still lived in the Windy City. We’ll see how his upcoming webinar compares. Enjoy! Remember you […]
As our forum members already know, we have a teleconference with Nick Sparks of “Sparks of Attraction” coming up on Tuesday night (tomorrow night). Many of our members remember Nick from his time spent at Project Chicago, and he has now gone on to NYC where he operates the only […]
Here is the third and final video I mentioned about Transactional Analysis. It explain what a “gimmick” is, and the author’s views about why he thinks it’s more important to focus on our own gimmicks, rather than other people’s games or ulterior motives. Transactional Analysis 3: If you want to read […]
Here’s the second video I mentioned on Transactional Analysis. This explains what a “game” is in the Transactional Analysis sense. Transactional Analysis 2:
A lot of folks in the community advocate various forms of “Positive Thinking.” For example, you might hear a lot of people talk about “The Secret,” or “The Law of Attraction,” or just give general advice of “Don’t worry about it” or “You’re over-thinking this; just relax” in response to […]
Here is a video of Morty Lefkoe explaining the “Lefkoe Method” at a TEDx talk in Hoboken, NJ. There are two major things I recommend to newbies for getting over approach anxiety. One is the Lefkoe Method. (The other is “Implosion Therapy,” which will be on a future blog post.) […]